How do I move on

 I didn't know how to move on,he seemed fine while I crambled.My heart wanted him,my body wanted him to hold me and hug me,my soul wanted my love..but he further slipped away from me,while I  showed him my tears.While I kept on crying,he further showed me his true colours..his true self.How  did we get here?



I started doubting if he ever loved me,every action,every word,him going back to his ex,him cheating on me,him being cold,him not greeting me,were signs that he never loved me.i got love bombed and thought it was love..I never wanted to accept that,it was hard for me to say it with my mouth that he never loved me..my tears can literally fill a bucket,i wept for him but he only got power over me.To him I was this weak girl who can't move on from him.


Eventually I got the strength,everyday was a struggle,everyday was a fight but I had to fight.Not for anyone but for me.To reclaim my identity back.I did,I loved myself more,I learnt to love myself first,Its a journey but for now,we are better,we are stronger,and we are healing.Theres nothing wrong with me,all the questions,all the doubts ,all the voices in my heard that I am not good enough were not true,I am good enough.I am beautiful,lovable and great woman.



I am no longer questioning myself,I AM WORTHY OF PURE LOVE,I AM WORTHY OF GENUINE LOVE.

TO HEALING AND BEYOND






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